Episode 28: 5 Things We Wish We Know Before Marriage And Moving In Together
Husband joins us again today for a little chat about things we wish we'd known before marriage and moving in together. Merging two independent individuals lives together can be tough, especially when it's done after years of long distance. So we're going over a few things that would've been so helpful to be warned about before doing it ourselves. We talk about dealing with emotions, narcissistic tendencies, timing of conversations, and more! For a more detailed look into the episode here is a minute by minute breakdown of the show:
1 - 9 Our peaks and pits of the week. Jellyfish on your flight. Sunday morning people watching and coffee on our makeshift patio. Mosquitos, Korea flu, and new cameras.
9 - 12 Topic of the week - things we wish we would’ve been warned about before getting married. The trials and tribulations that come with two independent people coming together under one roof.
12 - 15 Not so hot memories from living in New Mexico lol
15 - 23 1. Prioritizing time between friends and your husband/wife.
23 - 25 2. The importance of timing and location of conversations.
25 - 28 Don’t go to be angry? Or do…
28 - 42 Understanding that you will deal with and have emotions very differently. Those with high risk jobs that require quick and important decision making lack empathy, and how we’ve learned to deal with that.
42 - 51 Narcissistic tendencies and handling them in a marriage. Learning to turn it off.
51 - 56 Being willing to accept feedback .
56 - 1:03 The military/work hat.
1:03 - 1:07 Value of the week: quest protein cookies, olly gummies, and organifi greens powder
